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The
Road Not Taken
A look back at M. Scott Peck's enduring
best seller
By Bobby Maddex
From
Gadfly June 1998 |
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There's
an illusory quality to M. Scott Peck's The
Road Less Traveled (1978) that may
very well explain the longevity of this self‑help
mainstay. It's not unlike the euphoria which attends
the coordination of a sock drawer or a wax job
on your car. There's the feeling that all bases
are finally being covered, that your ducks are
not only in a row but beginning to march in time—that
you are doing, or have done, all those things
which precede the polishing that is the last,
preparatory stage before freedom and real living.
When I first ran across the book in college, it
appealed to nearly every side of me (not exactly
a world‑shattering accomplishment in those
days, I can assure you). For starters, there was
this delectable funkiness to its advice; it was
delivered with a simplistic joie de vivre
that called to mind Birkenstock sandals and ankle
tattoos. Far beneath the psychological theories
and actual case histories, I could detect a voice
that was decidedly bohemian and young, a residual
hipness that made a mild mockery of the book's
all too serious footnotes. More conspicuous was
its peculiar theology which couched Eastern philosophy
within the familiar rhetoric of Christianity.
Its case for God tapped into my own spiritual
nomadism and offered an appealing alternative
to dogmatic truth claims. Most compelling, however,
was the book's underlying promise. It dangled
before me not perfection, exactly, but a version
of it that was made to seem completely attainable:
the ability to transcend anxiety and consume life
in all its fullness. To a committed procrastinator
who had spent most of his young life cramming
and catching up, this was indeed a road less traveled.
Simon
and Schuster, The Road's publisher,
doesn't keep an exact count of the copies it has
sold. The typical estimate, however, ranges anywhere
from six to eight million. The book has been on
The New York Times' best‑seller list
for a little over 14 years (a world record) and,
with a new twentieth anniversary edition now in
bookstores, it seems unlikely that sales are going
to drop off any time soon. All of this was news
to me. Certain that I had stumbled across an important—but
forgotten—psychological artifact, I took
it upon myself to introduce the book to nearly
everyone I encountered. But rare was the soul
who had not already devoured it. In fact, it was
some sort of dog‑eared staple for the spiritually
inclined, not so much a book as a sacred manuscript
to which one turned for a jolt of morality and
common sense. It was like the Bible, only better
because you could take any of its passages out
of context and apply them directly to the matter
at hand. Okay, so maybe it was exactly like the
Bible. The point is that The Road
was already an institution by the time I discovered
it and continues to attract a rather sizable audience
two decades after its inception—a good enough
reason to regurgitate its philosophies and try
to account for the book's perennial allure.
Morgan
Scott Peck was born in 1936. His father, David
W. Peck, was the youngest senior partner at the
prestigious Manhattan law firm of Sullivan and
Cromwell. This is important only because it was
in the face of all things proper and expected
that Scott Peck decided, at age 13, to drop out
of an elite New England boarding school to attend
Friends Seminary in New York City. It was there
that he took a class in world religions and became
interested in Hinduism and Buddhism. Much of Peck's
life followed this pattern: a seemingly prosaic
beginning to things from which he eventually deviated—not
in any big way but just enough to alter his destiny.
He entered Case Western Reserve University, for
example, to obtain a standard medical degree but
emerged a psychiatrist: "Just weeks before
med school ended, I realized I didn't want to
be a GP or an internist. What I liked to do most
was to talk to people." And shortly after
that, he joined the United States Army instead
of establishing himself through a private practice—this
despite his strong opposition to the Vietnam War.
But perhaps the strangest divergence of all came
in 1976 when he suddenly decided to be an author:
"I was sitting in my living room and this
book said, 'Write me!' I said, 'Scotty, you've
had funny ideas before.' But it still said 'Write
me.'" Handwritten on yellow legal pads, the
resultant manuscript was purchased for $7500,
retitled The Road Less Traveled
(it was originally called "The Psychology
of Spiritual Growth") and received a paltry
hardcover print run of 5,000 copies.
As
Peck himself has suggested in nearly a dozen variations
on a single anecdote, the idea for his book came
to him in a suspiciously abrupt and, some would
say, anomalous fashion. "God happened to
be walking in northwest Connecticut one day,"
he told Rolling Stone's John Colapinto,
"when He decided He wanted a book written."
Now without making too much of his metaphors for
inspiration, I'm going to insist gently that they
are useful to an understanding of where Peck was
coming from when he took on this project. It's
one of those non‑fiction works—like
Brenda Ueland's If You Want to Write
or M.F.K. Fisher's How to Cook a Wolf—which
cradles its instructional subject matter in an
ambiguous, though still attractive, mysticism.
That its thesis struck Peck with the force and
clarity of a divine thunderbolt goes a long way
toward describing the book's ambitions. From its
advent, The Road was an extravagant
gesture, an "important" volume that
sought for itself a field of inquiry which would
stretch beyond the usual scope of things. This
said, the book is also modest at times and light‑handed;
it begins, in fact, with the most elementary of
sentiments.
"Life
is difficult." The Road's "New
Psychology" grows in wide, wild plumes from
this one incontrovertible seed. Like Viktor Frankl
and Erich Fromm before him, Peck puts mental health
in the hands of his patients by asking them to
consider what meaning can be derived from their
suffering. "Once we truly know that life
is difficult," he writes, "once we truly
understand and accept it—then life is no
longer difficult. Because once it is accepted,
the fact that life is difficult no longer matters."
It
would seem that at this juncture readers could
either option themselves out of the argument or
acknowledge it. But there is no real alternative
except to plow forward. Most people are seduced
by statements which confirm their misery. By opening
The Road with a universal fact,
Peck creates the illusion of listening. What follows
is a perpetual anticipation of our questions and
protestations that catches us in a dialogue before
we can raise our defenses against it. We feel
understood and so are open to his suggestions.
These
he gives under four different headings: Discipline,
Love, Growth and Religion, and Grace. The first
half of the book is by far the most practical.
Its counsel is tangible and closely aligned with
Peck's psychiatric training. In the section on
discipline, he teaches how to channel pain into
a constructive system of mental and spiritual
maturation. Through delaying gratification, accepting
responsibility, a dedication to truth and balancing,
a person can learn to face problems and eventually
use them to attain an enlightened station in life.
The key to the process is love with which Peck
deals extensively in the book's second section.
Love,
Peck says, is the motivation that will ensure
an adherence to discipline. He then goes to great,
unnecessary lengths to distinguish it from its
unwieldy imitators. Love, as he defines it, "is
the will to extend oneself for the purpose of
nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth"—an
accurate description, to be sure, but it scarcely
merits the 100 pages devoted to it. Still, these
are effective chapters because they play off our
natural inclination toward structure. They remind
me of those office supply shops that specialize
in crates and containers. It hardly matters that
we can reproduce their products at home with a
little ingenuity and a good cardboard box. What
these stores do is make organization seem like
a new concept. In the same way, The Road's
first half appeals to that part of us which appreciates
the idea of self‑improvement. Whether we
actually integrate its notions is not the point.
It's just fun to imagine what it would be like
to have it completely together.
In
all fairness, the book wasn't intended for the
likes of me: a person with garden‑variety
dysfunctions who's looking to fine‑tune
his lesser attributes. It was written for those
already in therapy or close enough to it that
a small push would seal the deal. Upon hearing
this, some logically conclude that The Road
is, then, the means through which its author guaranteed
his livelihood. But I honestly don't think this
was the case. No, Peck was aiming for something
far more majestic than mere occupational perpetuation.
If the closing portion of his book is any indicator,
he was shooting for nothing short of a post‑modern
cosmology.
The
last section is a bizarre blend of competing dogmas
and ostensibly unrelated sub‑topics. I must
admit, however, that it's also a joy to read.
When concluding his section on love, Peck writes
the following:
Clearly
there are dimensions of love that have not been
discussed and are most difficult to understand.
I do not think questions about these aspects (and
many more) will be answered by sociobiology. Ordinary
psychology with its knowledge of ego boundaries
may be of little help—but only a little.
The people who know the most about such things
are those among the religious who are students
of Mystery.
This
is the only available connection between the solid
science that began the book and the ensuing cabalistic
frenzy. Shortly after The Road was
published, Peck became a born‑again Christian.
Even so, he has never hedged from the New Age
flavor of these final chapters. How to account
for the discrepancy? It's tempting to cite the
fact that Peck's book, once Simon and Schuster
had published a Touchstone trade‑paperback
version of it, was in the process of making him
a millionaire at the time of his conversion. But
ye without sin can go ahead and change the first
word. Regardless, The Road's theology
has more in common with funambulism than fundamentalism.
As
I see it, the gist of its convoluted thesis is
that religion sometimes frustrates spiritual development.
Each of us harbors a world view and, as far as
Peck is concerned, that's enough to get us into
psychological trouble—especially if our
personal philosophies were passed down to us from
our parents or, for that matter, any microcosmic
source. Even science isn't above reproach. For
it, too, is a close‑minded scheme that encourages
stasis and relinquishment. "The road to spiritual
growth, however, lies in the opposite direction,"
writes Peck. "We begin by distrusting what
we already believe, by actively seeking the threatening
and unfamiliar, by deliberately challenging the
validity of what we have been taught and hold
dear. The path to holiness lies through questioning
everything."
Point
taken: religion bad; skepticism good. So why finish
with a categorical defense of God? Here's where
Peck loses a lot of people. After disparaging
all forms of fanaticism—on the heels of
an argument that mercilessly maligned every manifestation
of inherited tradition—Peck not only argues
for the existence of God, he does it in the vernacular
of a Calvinist: "mental illness occurs when
the conscious will of the individual deviates
substantially from the will of God." Now,
add a nod to our brothers out East ("We are
growing toward godhood."), mix the two together
("What this suggests is that the interface
between God and man is at least in part the interface
between our unconscious and our conscious. To
put it plainly, our unconscious is God."),
tie it to the rest of the book ("Rather than
being the illness, the symptoms are the beginning
of its cure. The fact that they are unwanted makes
them all the more a phenomenon of grace—a
gift of God, a message from the unconscious, if
you will, to initiate self‑examination and
repair.") and you have all the makings of
a far‑out, Sixties‑inspired amalgam
of science, religion and sociology. In short,
you have "Zen and the Art of Emotional Maintenance."
It's
no wonder, then, that The Road captivates
more than your typical neurotic; here's a book
that's determined to meet your every need. Its
influence has been compared to that of Thomas
a Kempis' Imitation of Christ and
John Bunyan's Pilgrim's Progress
in that it manages to traverse ideological and
disciplinary boundaries with the angel‑headed
ease of a Beat poet. And it does so with a lilting
inflection that is at once ingratiating and aloof,
professional and neighborly, down‑to‑earth
and celestial. But far and above these traits—notwithstanding
its exorbitance and the unfettered hodgepodge
that was its finale—is how The Road
fosters a habitual devotion to its advice.
For
several years, it was a permanent constituent
of my backpack. It represented my dedication to
incessant self‑analysis in the pursuit of
a visceral philosophy that would somehow unite
the facets of my personality and allow me to soar
over the ho‑hum apprehensions that had thus
far plagued my existence. And whether it was the
discovery that one's ducks are never so in a row
that you can keep the most willful of them from
flying south, the moment I read about Scott Peck's
life‑long addictions to alcohol and cigarettes,
or the realization that, when it comes to spirituality,
you can't have your cake and eat it, too, I left
the book at home one day and there it has remained
ever since. Today I regard The Road
with what amounts to a defiled nostalgia. I don't
blame it for anything; in fact, I associate it
with a period when my head was swimming with glorious
ideas and romantic delusions of saving the world.
But it wasn't until I set the book aside that
I stopped anticipating my life and began living
it. So while I'm still a procrastinator, even
a reluctant proponent of instant gratification,
at least I've forsaken my pursuit of perfection.
And that has made all the difference.
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